Professionalism

This post goes somewhat hand in hand with the one on enthusiasm and is derived partially from the experiences and blogs of some over the month. Professionalism has become an increasingly popular discussion topic of late and I wanted to weigh in with some thoughts.

I'm going to make this as plain as possible. A lack of professionalism is career suicide. This industry is small and unprofessional behavior is noted and commented upon more than you'd ever imagine.

If you are rejected by a publisher or agent, NEVER send a snarky, nasty or sarcastic note in reply. This could very likely get you blacklisted. It is sad to say this, but respectful thank you letters are not as well remembered as nasty comebacks. An impulsive gesture many have long-term ramifications.

Don't spend quality time in the company of authors bitter about the industry or those who are very negative about a publisher. You could be viewed by outsiders as agreeing with them. Plus, their negativity will just bring you down. There is no earthly way that you can know the intricacies of an author's personal gripes, so it is better to maintain a safe distance.

When attending conferences, put your best foot forward. Do not overindulge and make sure to get a full night of sleep. You will be rubbing elbows with others in the industry and rumors do fly at these conferences. I cringe when I hear stories about cover models being (wo) manhandled, of drunken behavior in bars and the ever popular 'TMI' and of authors who come to editor or agent appointments wholly unprepared and uninterested because they overindulged the evening before.

When you attend a conference as a published author, you represent the publisher and their work in some way, no matter how small. Hold your head up high and be proud. Show everyone that you are an asset to the publisher instead of a liability.

When you have a relationship with an agent or editor, conduct business in the most positive ways possible. Don't assume the worst if your editor or agent doesn't answer your questions immediately. Try not to be demanding or exhibit divalike tendencies. Be persistent but not paranoid. Treat every communication in a friendly manner, no matter how bad your day or week have gone.

Live by the old adage 'You get more flies with honey than with vinegar.'

I can tell you from personal experience that I am much happier answering friendly questions rather than demands or angry letters from authors who have complaints about items not even within my scope of work.

Don't ever put personal gripes on blogs or on websites or even email loops. These could come back to haunt you and be a serious misstep in your career longevity. Many people get sublime pleasure from spreading hurtful gossip. Don't allow them the opportunity to hurt you or your career.

You ARE a professional and you need to be professional in all your dealings.